

Already anticipating that deathbed “syke!” after decades of marital bliss.
25+ yr Java/JS dev
Linux novice - running Ubuntu (no windows/mac)


Already anticipating that deathbed “syke!” after decades of marital bliss.


Had an emotionally painful, self-esteem crushing experience at the hands of a high school girl that left me bitter and angry. Reconnected with her 15 years later and set about trying to hurt her the way I hurt. Wound up falling in love and getting married.
That’s some Hollywood bullshit right there but we’ve been married going on 15 years.


Yeah. My sympathies lie with OP, but communities should be able to unapologetically curate their vibe.


Of course they are.

All I could think of.


Telling what, exactly?


You’re overplaying your hand here. Parent/child incest implies rape if the child is underage. Adult sibling/underage sibling implies rape. But incest of siblings who are similar age (whether adult or child) doesn’t necessarily imply rape. Even incest of a parent and their adult child doesn’t imply rape.
Statistically I’d bet this is predominantly rape and you are largely correct, but by saying incest = rape you’ve overstepped a bit.
I appreciate you pointing this out. Today is literally my first day on the job after 5 months, but I’ll throw some cash their way after a check or two.