• Sp00kyB00k@lemmy.world
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    16 days ago

    Have you tried to have just a regular conversation with women? I mean I seduced my wife by saying ‘Hi, how are you’ and listening to her. Yes, men and women are not the same but if we treat each other like humans, you can actually have a nice time together.

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      16 days ago

      “Feminism is nothing more than the radical belief that women are people.”

      The differences between men and women are largely just fashion and custom. Women have interests, wants, lusts, and dislikes that are as varied as those of men.

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      16 days ago

      My wife tells me that’s what attracted her to me. She said I could hold a conversation and listen.

      Which is also what attracted me to her. She could talk and had her own mind. “Treat each other like humans” seems like an easy ask but I apparently scooped up the best wife ever because nobody had done that before.

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        15 days ago

        I am glad for you. In a time where everything needs to be flashy people forget the basics. Basic decency, understanding, empathy and cooking.

        Seriously, I got her attention with the talk but got her hand with my cooking.

    • lightnsfw@reddthat.com
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      16 days ago

      Yeah there’s a bunch of women I associate with that find me attractive and have either expressed interest in me or told me they would be if not for various external factors. I don’t really do anything besides be in pretty good physical shape and go out and be chill towards everyone. It’s not too difficult. Trying too hard is where I always ran into trouble.