• [deleted]@piefed.world
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    2 days ago

    objectification =/= rapey

    Seeing your partner exposed while sleeping and having thoughts about your partner and work is not sexual violence.

    Your points are valid about society and objectifying women and everything else and I am saying those things are not inherently part of the meme just because they exist.

    Stating that opinion isn’t being defensive or angry. I am calmly posting matter of fact statements and italicised one part of a sentence for emphasis.

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      2 days ago

      Well, that’s certainly news to me, which is surprising given my experience with the subject of sexual violence and culture. Could you cite where you learned about rape culture in a way that recognizes cultural norms but ignores the nuances of depictions of acts in media as well as media’s role in reproducing harmful norms? That’d be interesting.

      (I’m also curious if you read my comment(s), since I stated multiple times that it isn’t inherently sexual violence)

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          1 day ago

          No, more gently telling you that you didn’t realize something you said was contradictory, and using that to show that you don’t know enough about this to be trying to speak like an authority.

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            1 day ago

            Oh my bad, didn’t know that only people with authority can have opinions in the Lemmy Shitpost community. Have you presented your credentials?