Like if your vegan anarchist grandma and vegan anarchist dad were the same person.

I am an engineer (closer to toot toot then clicky clacky) cosplaying as a farmer in unceded aninstanabe territory in eastern ontario.

  • canada plant hardiness zone: 5a
  • extreme minimum temperature zones: 4b

Maybe the real vegan theory club were the friends we made along the way ✨

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  • I like to volunteer. That way there is a built-in thing to talk about, and it’s generally okay to not veer off that too much? Pick something you are interested in 😊

    There are so many different ways you can volunteer and many different activities. I’ve done things as diverse as the water stations at triathlons (standing and handing things out) to being on the board of a not-for-profit (lots of meetings), to serving meals with fnb (cooking and cleaning).

    I also take classes, such as in a pottery studio.

    All these are opportunities to meet people and be social but with no pressure. You know you have at least one thing in common! If you find someone you vibe with them you can become closer friends but if not you still make task-specific acquaintances.















  • Lists don’t really work for me - I guess I just have a series of systems.

    Lost things - gone forever but I’ve got like 5 of everything, or it’s so important it lives is the same place all the time (keys, phone, wallet)

    Tasks - Sometimes I’ll write something I need to remember to do at work before I leave on a post-it note, because I am almost certain to forget any task that I don’t do the minute I remember I have to…I only started making work plans once I started supervising and needed to be able to delegate work. I mostly get through on vibes with work tasks.

    Devices to charge - everything is charging all the time, and I’ve got extra cables all over.

    Shopping - you can buy the same thing every week if you eat the same thing every day 👉👉 If I want to make something special, I’ll make a list and hopefully remember it. But maybe it’ll get made next week…

    Appointments - In my calendar, but regular appointments are regular on purpose.

    Birthdays - yeah they are in my calendar and set to repeat.

    List can help some people, I’m sure but they also require execution function to create and I don’t got much of that.