Frontend dev living in the Swedish forests.
This! I aggre 100% with this.
Like yes, I agree that different jobs requiers different salaries depending on how important they are for the people and how hard it is to not work on your free time. Like, cafes are very nice but we NEED hospitals. An blue collar worker rarely thinks about their job at the end of the day while a manager or higher often do.
Yor life can always be pulled apar and is never 100% finished. I have not been in your situation. But I have learnt to be autistic as I got my diagnosis late.
First about storage, I would either start by trying to sort the stuff, I mean, boxes are a type of storage as well. Go for rough categories in size and location / type.
The other thing you can do is to just go to a second hand store and find a bookcase you like with fairly big and deep shelves. A big plus if you can move the shelfs as well. Often you can find them in sets of two or three. If you are creative you can sand and paint it to make it more your own.
About routines, you probably have some sort of routine, try to build on that. And you don’t necessarily need a super rigid routine. We eat around 12 and 18. I exercise some days after dinner. At 22 I clean a bit in the kitchen and go to beed to read until I can sleep. I do laundry on the same day every week etc.
That’s ironic