I’m old. I’ve seen stuff like this before. Im thinking red flag. I don’t know her motives… But a) taking a pic of that (at an understandably bad time) is odd. Funny, maybe, but also could be used in an unhealthy way. Add that to the fact she said she’d delete it, and didn’t… She wanted to use it for something. And a pic like that can only be used for something sinister. She cried. She was sorry… But you are now in the loop of self doubt. What she did was put you in a place of mental trauma and could be called mental abuse. Could be, I say.

How long have you been with her? How does she honestly make you feel? Warm and happy, or doubting? Ask your friends and family what they think. They may have a clearer view of things than you, having known you longer and caring for you…

That being said, I was young one. It’s tough. But it can also be amazing. I wish you good judgement or mental fortitude. You’re going to need one, the other, or both.

Suss

verb. To suss something. To solve or figure it out. To come to understand it.

Short, sweet, one syllable. Two letters, three S’s (which, honestly, do the heavy lifting) and U, the goth child of the vowels.

Idrid Elba, in the same vein.