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Cake day: June 14th, 2023

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  • Basically don’t use drugs or you’ll destroy your life.

    Sex was avoided as a topic, but we were taught that premarital sex is a sin. I was also teased as a kid about having crushes on girls (I’m male), despite my adament (and truthful) denials, and othertimes they’d joke that I’d change my mind once I was older. I won that though - turns out I was gay and never did change my mind.

    As for LGBT issues, it was so taboo / not talked about that I didn’t even connect my confusing feelings for male classmates with me being gay until I was 18. I thought everyone felt like that and was frustrated when they wouldn’t reciprocate those emotions back.


  • Afaik US Social Security running out of money is kind of an illusion as all the money is “invested” with the US government anyway, which is to say that the money is already coming out of the same pot of as all their other spending. It’s not as if once that account hits $0 that to maintain benefits they’d have to ramp up their spending - rather once it hits $0 they’ll be cutting spending, and to maintain benefits would require them to spend what were before it hit $0.

    It’s kind of akin to their “debt limit” - it’s just an artificially constructed barrier to their spending they impose on themseves but can tweak whenever they want. This isn’t to say that real barriers won’t appear - for instance maybe the bond market is expecting them to cut spending once it hits $0 and will react poorly if they don’t.


  • I think OP is asking “In the worst case scenario of a malicious instance owner that is able to fork the Lemmy codebase (so could disable hashing) and intercept and record all communications going to and from their instance, what risk do I have as a user of that instance?”

    The answer of course is yes, in theory a malicious instance owner could see the password you use and can see all your communications, votes, what you look at, etc. So use a unique password for that instance, and don’t use the instance for private communucations whose interception could seriously harm you.







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    27 days ago

    You get those stories from the mother posting about how a bakery did this really nice thing for her.

    From my perspective, if someone advertises that they did <nice thing> then it’s just ad spend. Give them kudos for spending a portion of their marketing budget on charity rather than just commercials, but it is still marketing. This can apply to individuals building up their social reputation too.