ISC really deprecated… =( You can install dnsmasq of course, but he is much more slow. But nice for small networks.
Firewalld is much worse for small sustems. Who is really need mark ports? But in difficult cases you need write iptables rich rules anyway. So, as result I love old school with clean iptables without any upperlevel daemons.
ISC DHCP switched to KEA DHCP, They don’t have package in Debian repo, but you can add repo and install: https://cloudsmith.io/~isc/repos/kea-3-0/packages/