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Cake day: August 15th, 2023

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  • If it’s more formal, you don’t say anything. In almost all cases where someone would be tempted to lie, I should already know what the correct information is before I even asked a question.

    In less formal situations, I would just keep asking follow-up questions. Lies are generally very shallow.

    Edit: My point is that there are methods to call someone out without actually making direct accusations. Accusations are “hostile” and not generally worth derailing a meeting for something that can be dealt with later.


  • Budget time for sleep. Period. It might take a bit of strength to commit to that based on whatever situation you are in, but it just takes practice.

    I have been in situations where I was absolutely forced to be awake for about 5’ish days but nothing else in my life after that ever forced that requirement. All-nighters were always a decision I made willingly and they never really worked out well for productivity.

    Still, I am a shitty sleeper and at this very moment, I only have time to finish this comment and get about 4 hours sleep in a strange hotel before I need to wake up for work. However, I am older now and less sleep seems to be the norm for my body.

    Managing being exhausted is a personal thing. Aside from drinking more water or coffee, I don’t think there are going to be many suggestions that will really help more than that.




  • I am atheist and my wife is Buddhist. While not exactly true, I view Buddhism more as a philosophy and it is more palatable in that regard. My tolerance for people practicing religion is also fairly high as long as they don’t try and “convert me”.

    As a result, I have been to plenty of ceremonies for things over the years and it doesn’t bother me. Of course, I don’t believe in any of that “magic” but there is usually loads of good food that comes attached, depending. (Also, there is a high probability of after-hours gambling and drinking which was cool when I did that stuff, at least with the Asian crowd I roll with.)

    +20 years married into a Buddhist family, if you were wondering about that.