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Cake day: July 5th, 2024

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  • then the regular stuffs should work like going out and meeting new people randomly, making friends at work and doing social service, reading circle and such, joining hobby based group or simply going to a club.

    edit: from other comments, you switched country. so perceived cultural difference could make it bit difficult to fit in. it is completely normal and it will get easy soon enough.



  • serenissi@lemmy.worldtoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlAdvice
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    6 days ago

    never ignore your mental health.

    do consider what elders around you say as suggestions and give them a good thought. don’t blindly assume it to be wrong or right even it seems so. most often it is somewhere in between.

    know your situations and consider the consequence of people you trust breaking it. if the potential consequence is harmful enough to you, try to re-think your decisions.

    also, I think you already know this since you’re on lemmy, be aware of child grooming. it’s better to know the risk than to fall for.

    btw what do you mean 11th or 12th? any one of them? I’m curious about your country’s school system. you people go to university at 15??






  • you know what’s funny about turning it off and on? my home isp had a problem. the uplink packets were dropping very often, downlink was fine. I called tech support.

    as usual they said the ‘IT hello’. I said already tried. the guy made me restart everything on call. nothing changed. soon they sent two guys. they came all the way to turn the optical interface off and on and tp change the dns to isp one (obviously I never use that). they soon realized the problem isn’t here and called the isp. after some furious cussword exchanges they told the isp the IT mantra. and voila! they restarted their switch (cutting off internt to an entire locality lol) and everything went normal. that day I knew the true power of that mantra.