I’m 31, my husband is 51, and lately I’ve been feeling some baby fever. For the record, kids aren’t a must for me, I’m genuinely happy with or without them, but I think it would be nice to experience that journey. My husband is hesitant, though. Even though he’s very healthy, active, and energetic, he feels like having a child in his 50s might be too late. He also already has a 27-year-old son, and he worries that the big age gap between siblings would feel strange.
I guess I’m just looking to hear what others think about this situation.
The previous president of Finland, Sauli Niinistö is currently 77-year-old and his firstborn is 7.
That means the child will see his dad die at a far too young age, most likely. But otherwise, meh. He’ll be a different kind of father, but a good father all the same.
The question: how angry would he be if his father was 25 years older than he actually is? Would he prefer not having been born at all under such circumstances? I bet he wouldn’t oppose his own existence, for such a reason at least. And neither will his child.