Easy for me to do that kind of thing as well. Like, to me, there’s just kinda funny stories, but perhaps others don’t see it that way. OTOH, I have a hard time asking people I’m not really comfortable with basic small-talk questions sometimes because it feels like prying. Like, I don’t mind dropping something like “I found out recently that the person who birthed us traded us for a blanket once*” but I might feel weird asking how people’s holidays were.
Easy for me to do that kind of thing as well. Like, to me, there’s just kinda funny stories, but perhaps others don’t see it that way. OTOH, I have a hard time asking people I’m not really comfortable with basic small-talk questions sometimes because it feels like prying. Like, I don’t mind dropping something like “I found out recently that the person who birthed us traded us for a blanket once*” but I might feel weird asking how people’s holidays were.
*its not anywhere near as bad as it sounds