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24 hours agoBeing nervous because it was a girl and not a guy is something you need to switch in your brain. It is a Human that wanted to speak to you. Once you adjust your thinking, the nervousness will go away. I understand people are shy, but being shy because of gender is a useless thing that will only harm your social skills & friendships. People are people. You will be ok.
You’re not out of touch. It’s just another human. Just say hello back and have a conversation. Be respectful, be interested and be honest. Your life will be so much richer. And it gets easier to talk to everyone over time.